Have you ever heard someone say of a church, “The people there are so real”?
What does the person really mean by this statement? What is the underlying statement being made by the person that makes this remark? Do they mean that the people are genuine, kind, accepting, non-judgmental, non-religious, uncomplicated, etc…? Or do they mean that there is no requirement to assimilate with that group? Do they mean that the group doesn’t use big, unfamiliar words that they will have to learn? Do they mean that the “initiation” into this particular church/group doesn’t come with any type of rites or vows? Does it mean that I can just “fly by the seat of my pants” and I will get along fine? Does it mean that there is no requirement to submit to the authority of the church/group? Does it mean that everything has been dumbed down to the level of a 2nd Grader and little to no work, on my part, will be required to get up to speed?
What do they “really” mean when they say, “The people there are so real”?
I think I know the answer in most cases.
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